Today was my 4 week follow up, and I must say, what a crock of shit. I most definately need a new doctor. To make a long story really short, he told me I'm fat. Oh, sorry, "unhealthy and overweight", and that due to this, not only could it have been a factor in losing my son (bite me) it also leads him to think that he does not want me pregnant until at LEAST the end of the year, and that's depending on how much weight I lose.
I just lost my son halfway through my pregnancy, the pregnancy where I even ASKED about my weight, and I was alright, and now you're going to suddenly tell me I'm too fat to get pregnant, wait 8 months and ask again if you drop some weight, fatty? I just LOST my SON? I have babies on the brain constantly? And you want me to wait 8 months "at least"? HAHAHAHA
Bite my fat arse, and find a new patient, cause I'm sure as hell finding a new doctor.
Now if only AF would show up and let me know that things are working a bit more normally down there, I wouldn't even have needed a dang followup to tell me that everything else is fine. Ugh.
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I'm Sorry. Cheers to a new doctor! I feel like sometimes they just don't get it...
ReplyDeleteOh Jamers... what a crack pot doctor! I hate that you had to go through that today! He obviously has absolutely NO CLUE about a woman's body or her pregnancy. I know you know this already, but YOU had nothing to do with losing your son. It wasn't your fault and never will be. How dare he accuse you of having part in this. What an asshat. Not only would I find a new dr., I'd report his sorry character to the board. Good luck to finding a new doctor! :)
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear about your loss. It is very unfair and your doctor is only making things worse. I am overweight and was NEVER told anything about losing weight or that affecting my pregnancy. I worked with an RE to deal with my infertility (not weight related) and he made us wait 3 months for my uterus to go back to its normal size. He never asked me to lose weight. I felt like waiting that 3 months was an eternity, so I can imagine how you must feel about 8. My heart is broken for you. I hope you find another doctor and that you realize it is not your fault.
ReplyDeleteI would be pissed and hurt too. I'm so sorry your doc was so insensitive. If you can, I agree that finding a new one is a good idea. Some people are so RUDE!
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